I've been reading some of the blogs: The Honeymoon stage or the you never get what you want. My answer to all of it is, are you happy with yourself?
First of all, we all put on a good face when we meet someone new. I do it, as much as I hate doing it, I still do. I used to have a rule not to dress up for someone I was going to meet, so that they can see who I really am and learn to like me (or not). I want to know the truth either way because if you don't like me, I don't want to waste my time, and you shouldn't want to waste yours.
Secondly, we get so busy chasing a dream that society tells us to chase, and maybe its not for us. I always knew I liked my time to myself. I still value the time to sip a cup of tea and go over thoughts in my head. Some of my friends try to keep me out in the clubs or out doing something all the time. Don't get me wrong, I like doing things, but I also like my down time.
I don't need to be with anyone for the sake of being in a relationship. If I can't enhance a persons life, and they can't enhance mine, then why bother? People come in your life for a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime. Determine which it is and don't hold on to someone longer then you should.
I am content. I know the only way that I have this contentment is by being happy with myself. I have things I want to accomplish and my "To Do" list is LONG. But I'm having a great time working on it. Now that I have truely reached this point, when someone approaches me, and their not right for me, I can walk away with no doubts or regrets.
I promise you if a person is meant to be with you, no mater what, they will come back to you. Just have Faith and in the mean time work on You, and being happy with You.